Employment
Four years ago this month I found out I had breast cancer. For the most part my attitude was great. Stage 2, lymph node involvement, chemo and radiation. My only complaint was constipation.
At 52, ever since I was let go from the Hospital I have had what I call bad luck. Maybe because of my age, or that my experience is in the Medical Laboratory as a technician.
There have been a few jobs that did not last for different reason (labor cut, closings or lifting limitations).
My lower back was injured while working part time in the Laboratory and part in the materials department, lifting and bending. I accepted this job because I needed benefits.
Shortly after this acceptance is when I found out about the lump on my breast. Looking back I should not have been told to lift items over 40 or 50 pounds. They terminated me due to the fact that I needed time to heal with therapy.
This all has place a great strain on my marriage. Because over the last year I have been loosing confidence in myself, not being able to be a part and solution of our financial problems. Health Insurance is over $1000.00. My husband is self employed. We have decided that the marriage needs to be resolved.
All of my life I have worked even while raising two children. Putting myself through college, working full time and doing my homework as well as my kids.
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After my first marriage ended up in a divorce, I moved back home with my children and took care of everyone. I don't know how to deal with not being able to be independent. Because of this alone is why now this marriage is ending.
Please if there is anyone who can help me find work, I would greatly appreciate it. I am a hard worker and enjoy working with patients. Working at the Hospital was my favorite job. Although, most found it to be depressing, I saw hope and a reason to fight to live. That is why I believe that my own dealing with breast cancer were so positive. So many others had it so much worse than I did. I want to help others.
Please, if you can help or pass this on to someone else, you have no idea how grateful I would be.
Thanks
Career Coach comment
You have been dealt a series of blows in the past 4 years, so I can understand why it is hard to keep your equilibrium. But, I applaud you for your courage in reaching out. It is clear to me that you are determined to help yourself, so the focus of this message is to provide a few possible steps you can take right away to get things moving in the right direction. Give these a try and see if they help yield the results you are seeking.
•First, please make contact with your state One Stop Center for employment services. There is one within driving distance of most population centers in each state. You can find the one nearest you by checking the government listings in your phone book under "employment" or "unemployment services". This is the office within each state that provides unemployment benefits, but more importantly, they provide career counseling, job search assistance and job leads. Make an appointment to see a job counselor right away to learn all the services available to you. You may be eligible for displaced homemaker programs, career counseling and even travel or child care assistance during your work search, depending upon your state's programs.
•Inquire while there about assistance through Vocational Rehabilitation. Because of your cancer situation and your back issues that make it hard for you to continue your profession, it may be that you are eligible for assistance to retrain or to assist you to find alternative work.
•While participating in any of these programs, seek help to sort out the best fit for your skills and training, while allowing for your past injuries on the job. What can you do that will enable you to use your lab skills while not lifting or bending too much? Is it possible for you to return to laboratory work without re-injuring yourself?
•Laboratory workers are in high demand, so also examine how you are presenting your credentials and your circumstances when approaching potential employers. Remember to present your resume with a positive focus, emphasizing how you can offer value to the employer. It is not necessary to bring up your cancer or your back injury unless it will impact your ability to do the job for which you are interviewing. Unless you will need time off for treatment, it is probably best to emphasize instead your skills, your abilities and your work ethic rather than past illness or injury.
•Network, network, network. This means reaching out to those you know to state that you are looking for work. Let folks know what you want to do and what your training prepares you to do. Then, ask if they know of anyone to whom you should be talking to uncover leads. You don't have to ask for a job specifically of everyone to whom you speak, just let people know you are looking and for what. You'll be surprised how willing people are to provide ideas and leads if you don't put them directly on the spot by asking for a job, something that not everyone can offer. But, most, even if they cannot offer you a job, CAN offer you advice or direction.
Best of luck in your challenging situation. I have faith that you'll once again find yourself on a positive path.
Best regards,
Kathy Flora
Career Coach, Cancerandcareers.org